What's your number one question about personal development?


Empower Your Children And Free Yourself: Why You Should Repeat 'I Am Not Responsible For My Children's Academic Performance'

By Jose Lizama

Updated on Sunday 28th of May 2023

What's your number one question about self-improvement?


Being a parent is no easy feat. You want nothing but the best for your children, and that often includes wanting them to perform well academically. It's common for parents to feel responsible for their children getting their work done, but the truth is, you are not responsible for their academic performance.

The good news is, releasing yourself from this responsibility can bring a sense of liberation and allow your children to take ownership of their responsibilities. When you constantly feel the need to push your children to do their work, it can lead to resentment and ultimately harm their motivation to learn. By instilling a sense of accountability in your children, you can teach them valuable life skills that will serve them well beyond the classroom.

Just imagine a scenario where your child comes home with an unfinished project. Without hesitation, you ask them if they have completed their work and remind them of the deadline. Instead of taking charge and doing the project for them, you empower your child to take responsibility for their actions. This simple act can go a long way in teaching your child to take ownership of their responsibilities.

It's important to remember that while your support and guidance are essential, your children need to learn to take responsibility for their own work. By holding your children accountable, you teach them important life skills such as time management, organization, and perseverance.

When your child realizes that they are responsible for their own work, they will be motivated to succeed and take pride in their accomplishments. They will feel empowered by their ability to take charge of their learning and will become independent thinkers and problem-solvers.

So take a deep breath, trust in your children's capabilities, and repeat after me: "I am not responsible for my children getting their work done." Let this affirmation guide you towards a healthier and more empowering parenting style. Remember, by letting go of this responsibility, you are allowing your children to develop the skills necessary for success in all areas of their lives.

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