What's your number one question about personal development?


Choose Your Target, Reject Perfection: Embrace The Journey Towards Self-Fulfillment And Growth

By Jose Lizama

Updated on Monday 22nd of May 2023

What's your number one question about self-improvement?


Are you tired of feeling like you always have to hit the mark? Do you ever feel like societal pressure is forcing you to aim for perfection, even when it's unrealistic? You're not alone. Many of us have fallen prey to the idea that we need to achieve perfection in order to be successful. This can lead to feelings of frustration, inadequacy, and a lack of motivation.

But, the good news is that you don't have to strive for perfection. You can choose to focus on progress and growth instead. That's where the affirmation "I choose my target but I do not desire to hit the mark" comes in. By shifting your focus from just the end goal to the journey, you'll be able to find fulfillment in the process.

Just imagine being able to enjoy the steps you take towards your goal, even if you don't reach it. The beauty of this mindset is that you can always learn from your mistakes and work towards becoming better. Instead of getting bogged down by the pressure to be perfect, you can celebrate every step forward, no matter how small.

The thing is, aiming for perfection often leads to inaction. When we feel like we have to meet an unrealistic standard, it can be paralyzing. On the other hand, when we embrace the idea that it's okay to make mistakes, we're more likely to take risks and take action towards our goals. It's about progress, not perfection.

By choosing your target, you're taking control of your life. You're outlining your aspirations and creating a plan to make them a reality. But by giving yourself permission to not hit the mark every time, you're freeing yourself from the pressure to be perfect.

This mindset can be applied to many aspects of life. Relationships, careers, personal development - the list goes on. In each of these areas, it's important to make intentional decisions about what the target is, but also to understand that it's okay to not hit the mark every time. In fact, it's expected.

The journey towards your target is where the true growth happens. You'll learn about yourself, your strengths and weaknesses, and what it takes to achieve your goals. Each step forward, even if it's a small one, should be celebrated. Those small steps will add up over time, and before you know it, you'll have made significant progress.

So, go ahead and choose your target. Set your sights on what you want to achieve and create a plan to get there. But also give yourself the grace to enjoy the journey. Embrace the lessons you'll learn, celebrate the progress you'll make, and know that it's okay if you don't always hit the mark. By doing so, you'll find fulfillment, growth, and a renewed sense of motivation.

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