What's your number one question about personal development?


    If It's To Be, It's Up To Me: The Power Of Taking Control Of Your Life

    By Jose Lizama

    Updated on Wednesday 19th of April 2023

    A photo of a person surrounded by a pile of colorful balloons, representing the joy and happiness that comes with taking control of one

    What's your number one question about self-improvement?


    Do you ever find yourself waiting for someone else to make the first move? Do you ever feel like you're not in control of your own destiny? It's a common feeling, but one that can be overcome with a simple yet powerful affirmation: "If it's to be, it's up to me."

    This affirmation puts the power squarely in your own hands. It reminds you that you're in control of your own life, and that if you want something to happen, you've to take action to make it happen. It's a call to action, a reminder that you aren't powerless, and that you can achieve your goals if you're willing to put in the work.

    Of course, this affirmation isn't a magic wand that'll instantly make all your dreams come true. It's not enough to simply repeat the words to yourself and wait for something to happen. You've to put in the effort and take the necessary steps to make your goals a reality.

    But the power of this affirmation lies in its ability to inspire action. It's a reminder that you've the power to make a difference in your own life, and that you don't have to wait for someone else to give you permission to pursue your dreams.

    When you adopt the mindset of "If it's to be, it's up to me," you become more proactive in your approach to life. You stop waiting for opportunities to come to you, and start actively seeking them out. You take responsibility for your own success, and you become more resilient in the face of obstacles and setbacks.

    So if you're feeling stuck or powerless, try repeating this affirmation to yourself. Let it remind you that you're in control of your own destiny, and that you've the power to make your dreams a reality. And then take action, because ultimately, it's up to you to make things happen.

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